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Shop Independent and Local – and Win!

I know at Half-Pint we talk a lot about saving money – we are constantly on the look out for a thrifty buy or a good deal.  But of the many reasons buying thrifty is important to us?  It allows us to save enough money to buy other high quality items new.

To us, Just as important as buying green is buying independent and local.   

Each time money is spent at a locally-owned business, the taxes stay in your community, and support needed resources such as schools, parks…and much more.  Local businesses employ local people.  Money spent at these stores and businesses supports your neighbors and friends who own them and are employed by them.

We know, we know – it’s hard to pass up all of the good deals on Black Friday, and we’re not admonishing you for shopping.  But what we’re hoping is that with all of the money you’ve saved being thrifty over the year, you can spend some this holiday season at a local and independent business.  It will be just as good for the community.

Do you know about Small Business Saturday?  You may have seen it advertised:  the idea is – specifically on Saturday of this week, go check-out some great small, independent stores in your community and find a few things for someone special on your list.

So we need your help.  

You live all of our community, and you have favorite independent, local stores.   We’d love to have a “half-pint” list of favorite local, independent stores.  And this is where you come in!

Share with the Half-Pint community your favorite independent, local stores.   Comment on our blog or respond to our facebook post with the following information, and we will pick one person to win a $100 gift certificate to the store in their comment/post.  

Name of Store and website (if they have one), the general location

Why you love it!   What kinds of stuff do you buy there, and for who?

Some small print – 1) if your store doesn’t offer gift cards, we’ll offer the ‘reward’ through a American Express or VISA Gift Card, 2) only independent, local stores are eligible!, 3) You can reply as often as you like, but one ‘entry’ per person.

Deadline:  Monday, November 26th, 11:59pm

To get you started, here are some of our favorites:


1 –  Fromagination (located on the Capitol Square) – I can put together treat baskets for friends and coworkers that are artisan as well as local.  Wisconsin cheeses, Madison’s own Quince and Apple preserves, some Gail Ambrosius chocolates, and Potter’s Crackers.  Yum.

2 – Iconi Interiors (West Washington, downtown Madison) – It’s an awesome mixture of new and upcycled mid-century modern home decor.  It’s full of treasures, most of which I can’t seem to do without whenever I’m in the store.


1 – Absolutely Art (Atwood Ave)– When I need a gift, I always head there first.  From practical to whimsical, I love buying things that are handmade from a business that is so involved in the community, including supporting our local schools.

2 – La Lingerie Shop (Johnson Street, near east side of Madison) – This gem of a store is someplace you might not consider going- after all, do you need a specialty bra?  The answer is yes, yes you do.  Her amazing fitting tips are invaluable AND she has CHOICES of beautiful bras for every size.  And she has nursing bras!  Make the appointment!  Get the foundation layer right, so everything else can look great!

3 – Happy Bambino (Monona Dr) – I would hope you all know about HB.  What you may not know is how much of their lives the folks who own that place have given up in order to give such a valuable resource to the community.  Their carefully curated selection of goods and their commitment to the community should make this top on your list of places to go for baby needs.


(fabulous Volunteer Co-Coordinator Extra-ordinaire)

1 – Playthings (in Hilldale mall).  They carry unique and creative toys, games and gadgets. It’s a fun and colorful store with good knowledgable staff. It’s great for birthday presents that I know will be well loved and reliable and different. They also carry some beautiful clothing for babies and toddlers

2 – Change (On Williamson St) – It’s a new women’s clothing and accessories store owned and operated by a local mom. She buys only fair trade and offers beautiful items that are good quality and wearable. The store is bright and easy to shop!  Check out this recent review in Madison Magazine.


Holiday Hilarity

The new year is going to bring all kinds of fun for Half-Pint resale.  But you’ll have to wait to hear more about that.  (sorry!)

In the mean time, it’s the holiday season for Lisa and I, and we’re busy getting ready for time with our families.   In the spirit of the happiness, of the season, we are offering a contest – with a category for everyone.  We’d love to see entries on facebook (make sure and tag us) but we also will accept entries by email.

So here it is:

Send us your stories, pictures and videos in the following categories, all around the theme of holidays or the winter season.  Every entry must include an item purchased at Half-Pint (any year!  Think winter coats while sledding, gifts opened for Christmas or Hanukkah, etc.)

1.  Funniest Holiday/Winter moment

2.  Happiest  Holiday/Winter moment

3.  Best Holiday or Winter Half-Pint find (include the price you paid, if you remember!)

Deadline:  January 7, 2011.   We will pick our favorites in each category, and then post them on facebook for you to see.  The entries with the greatest number of likes/votes will receive a $50 Half-Pint gift certificate.

If you aren’t already a friend of Half-Pint’s on facebook – we recommend you do so stat!  It’s the best place to find out what is going on.  Plus, we like to post thrifty tips to help you make the most of your pennies and time.

 (We reserve the right to repost or use your entry. Please also include your full name and phone number, as well as the names of the people in the picture).

Season’s Greetings and White Winter days to all of you-

EC and LS

Do not be afraid of their tears

Melissa Terrill is our guest blogger, taking on a topic that often fills so many of us with anxiety.  Melissa and her husband  lost their daughter nearly 9 months ago after she was born at the tender age of 24 weeks.  Melissa is a dear friend of ours and of Half-Pint Resale, and offered to write this post to give us all the tools – the words – the permission some of us may feel we need – to be there for our friends and family who are going through such a tragedy.  She speaks with compassionate but straightforward truth, and we encourage you all to read and to share this important information, so that we can be community and family for one another.

Melissa and Mike and their son Jonathan have also begun a truly wonderful non-profit in honor of their daughter, called Mikayla’s Grace, which seeks to support families with a baby in the NICU and those who experience the death of an infant at Madison area hospitals.  The non-profit provides provides  NICU care packages and angel memory boxes, offering both practical and emotional support for the parents.  There are many ways you can get involved – read on.

-EC and LS


According to 2004 statistics issued by the CDC 15.6% of pregnancies in the United States ended in either a miscarriage or stillbirth.  Which means that most of us have either been directly affected or  know someone who has been affected by the loss of an infant.

My family has experienced this heartache first hand, when our second child Mikayla Grace was born prematurely for unknown reasons at only 24 weeks and 5 days last June.  In one day, our dreams as we knew them came crashing down, when we learned that our daughter would not survive after being alive for only 36 hours.  You can read more of our story here. The world suddenly became a very lonely place, one in which our “new normal” was so unexpected that even those closest to us were at a loss of what to do.

I have learned a great deal through this experience, and I hope that I can share a few things that might help you if someone in your life experiences the death of their child.  It is hard to know what to say to a grieving parent, and I’m almost certain that before Mikayla died I wouldn’t have had a clue either. Our own fear of loss can render us immobile.  One of the most difficult things that a bereaved parent deals with is when people say nothing about the the child that is on their minds every moment of the day.  I remember thinking that it seemed like others had returned to their lives so quickly, leaving us to deal with our grief on our own in many ways.

It was as if people felt like they had to think of the “perfect” thing to say, and if they couldn’t, they just said nothing. There is no “perfect” thing to say. There is nothing you can say to heal the grief of losing a child. But acknowledging and supporting grief is a way to help healing. Please know that the effort of talking about the baby, the loss, and the sadness will be appreciated, even if it’s not “perfect.”  I love this quote by Elizabeth Edwards, whose firstborn child died at age 16,

‘If you know someone who has lost a child or lost anybody who’s important to them, and you’re afraid to mention them because you think you might make them sad by reminding them that they died, they didn’t forget they died. You’re not reminding them. What you’re reminding them of is that you remember that they lived, and that’s a great, great gift.”

Bereaved parents need your loving support more than ever. Please do not stay away or ignore the loss.  Not speaking about it does not lessen its reality. Bring up the subject, and be prepared for tears. Nothing you say will ever make the bereaved parent sadder than the reality of losing a child. Simply allowing a safe space for them to grieve without denying that grief is all that’s required of you. Remember, it is usually the simple things you say or do that mean so much.

There is sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief…and unspeakable love. ~ Washington Irving

It is important to remember, as a friend or family of bereaved parents, that the parents only grieve because they loved so deeply.  Their tears speak this unspeakable love, do not be afraid of their tears.  Do not be afraid to speak the name of the baby that they still love even though the baby is no longer with us.

In discussing this topic with a friend of mine who has not experienced the death of her child, she said “the two things I would have LOVED to have known immediately are:
1.  The most important thing to ANY bereaved mom is to know that you remember and care about her baby.
2.  The right thing to do or say is SOMETHING.  The only real mistake you can make is saying or doing NOTHING.”

Contrary to the widespread notion that “getting over” loss depends on “letting go” of the person who died, many people find that successfully going on with their lives includes finding a new way to feel connected to the person who died.  When I found this on the Sweet Dreams Our Angels website I really connected with it.  I knew that I wanted Mikayla to have a legacy that would carry on to help other families that have also experienced the loss of a child, and that is why I started our non-profit, Mikayla’s Grace.

Mikayla’s Grace is an organization that we formed to support families with a baby in the NICU and those who experience the death of an infant at Madison Area hospitals by providing NICU care packages and angel memory boxes that offer both practical and emotional support for the parents.  We received a lot of support from the nurses while we were in the hospital with Mikayla, but the hospital has a limited budget for bereavement materials and does not currently have a consistent supplier of donations for things to be used to make memories of the baby’s life for bereaved parents.  We strive to improve the quality of this experience for parents in this situation.

We will be making our first donation of Angel Memory Boxes to the NICU at St. Mary’s Hospital where Mikayla was born. Our first donation of these boxes will be in June 2011, in memory of Mikayla’s first birthday, and we are working on the donation of the NICU Care Packages for later this year. Visit our website to find out how you can help or “like” our facebook page.

We are currently running a Flower Fundraiser until April 29th to buy needed items for the boxes.  You can purchase flower bulbs to plant in your garden and 50% of your purchase will go directly to Mikayla’s Grace.   We are also looking for volunteers who can knit, crochet, or sew.  We are hoping that we can gain enough support so that after our first donation in June this can be an ongoing project for many years to come.

Please consider visiting our website to help out and pass this information along to anyone you think might be willing to help!  We need all the help we can get to make sure that this non-profit can continue supporting NICU babies and bereaved parents in our community.

Resources for Bereaved Parents and those who want to support them:

Thankfully there are many resources available for bereaved parents and their family members today, and we are fortunate to have two wonderful Pregnancy/Infant Loss support groups here in Madison:
  • The Bereaved Parents of Madison Infant Loss group meets on the third Thursday of each month at 7:30 pm, in Bay 4 of St. Mary’s hospital.  Their website is  They also have a facebook group that is just for members and is a helpful way to connect to other bereaved parents.
  • SHARE meets the fourth Wednesday of each month at 6:30 pm.  Location varies so email Cynthia for monthly location.
  • You can also check out Cythia’s blog, where she discussed the topic of “What you can say” to bereaved parentsIf you have a friend or family member that experiences infant loss, encourage them to attend a group even if they are hesitant. Connecting with other bereaved parents has helped my husband and I tremendously along our healing journey, and we are amazed at the support we’ve received from these other parents.  There are also many online resources and places where parents who’ve experienced a loss can connect with other bereaved parents.
  • has support groups and Faces of Loss, Faces of Hope has the most comprehensive list of resources for parents and family members and is also a place where parents can share their child’s story.
  • This site has a very good explanation of grief if you’d like to understand a little better what bereaved parents face.  If you would like to get something for a bereaved parent but not sure what to do this article gives good ideas for appropriate sympathy gifts.
  • I also have a post on my personal blog about What Parents of Angels Wish You’d Remember written in hopes that people would begin to understand what I, as a bereaved parent, needed. Another fellow blogger, Carly Marie, has written articles on How You Can Help Ease the Pain and How Friends and Family Can Help that are worth reading.
Keep in mind that although most parents will grieve differently, most bereaved parents would appreciate you doing something.  The only wrong thing to do is nothing.  I hope that by sharing my story it will help others that are going through this journey as well.